Any one with the knowledge of type 1 & 2 please click this question thanks!?

I took an std test about a week ago. I got my results stating that i was positive for type 1 & 2! I had no symptoms or outbreaks for neither type 1 or 2. The reason why i took the std test is cause i had my pap test & i would figure i would do both at the same time. I am lost on alot of things. My doctor said if i take valtrex i can have with no condom on with my clean partners & they will be safe & there was no risk for them catching it. I may have misunderstood my doctor wrong. I think the right way is to have with a condom on & take the valtrex. I know for a fact that is very contagious! Now here is another problem how the heck can i figure out what partner gave it to me. I have 3 partners currently right now. Dave & i have been long term for about a year & we dont wear condoms. Doug i have been seeing him for 3 weeks & he wears condoms with all of his partners. I dont like condoms period so i took it off when we were having cause i didnt like it. And we only had one time. Adam & i had 2 times. I am his 2nd partner! He wore a condom with his first partner to. With me we didnt cause i knew i was clean! Well i thought i knew i was clean. I took a std test i believe about a year ago & i was clean at that time. The person that i think i caught it from was dave cause we dont wear condoms. If he had with any one else he may not of wore a condom with them either sense he dont like condoms. The doctor put me on valtrex. I already started takeing that. Now this is the next question im scared about... I am scared i gave it to my partners cause i didnt know i had it. I called Dave up and let him know and he freaked out some & told me he wore condoms with every girl he slept with thats why i said that ealier. And Adam said he wore condoms with every girl he slept with. Thats why i think its Dave that gave me ! I havent talked to Dave yet! I havent had time to call him or actually he is at work. Ok here is more questions..Sorry for the questions! I am extremely stressed, depressed & mad that i got this. Ok im on valtrex; say forth i give a guy a blow j*b and he has type 2 like i do; can i get type 2 on my mouth if he dont have an outbreak? I also am having Adam & Dave tested to see if either one of them caught it from me or has it to see if either one of them gave it to me. Adam is scared to have sex fearing he will catch it! I am not sure what im supposed to do. I want to continue having sex with him but how likely is it for him to catch it? If im on valtrex & he wears a condom how likely is it for him to get it?How about without a condom on? I know u are not supposed to have sex when u have an outbrake cause i know u can spread it at that time. Thanks guys for answering these questions cause im totally in shock right now. Tryin to figure out who gave it to me & if i ped it to my other partners. Thats why im totally freaking out! And please if u r going to leave a smart remark please i dont want to hear it. I am a 29 year old female & i have had only like 4 partners. So ya please dont call me a slut cause i know im not!